The Power of Forgetfulness

8 Sep

“Inside each and every one of us is ‘One True Authentic Swing,’ something we was born with. Something that’s ours and ours alone. Something that can’t be taught to you or learned. Something that’s got to be Remembered…”
—STEVEN PRESSFIELD, The Legend of Bagger Vance

There is ONE unseen “Power” that’s Kicking our Butts in the area of our Dreams & Goals! It operates below the surface of our conscious awareness but with such profound force that it must be considered one of the Supreme Concealments of all time. What am I talking about??

The “Power of Forgetfulness.”

This Insidious “Power” can secretly overtake our thoughts and emotions like a giant glacier silently advancing through a canyon. The “Power of Forgetfulness” can be all-encompassing as in people with Alzheimer’s disease or other kinds of dementia. Or, it can be as benign as not remembering where you left your keys. In its more subtle and dangerous forms, however, it can undermine your dreams and professional life in often… devastating ways.

I got a call from a friend, who said to me he had been let go from his company after 15 years. He was shocked! I told him; “Congratulations! This is the greatest day of your life!” He said: “What?” I reminded him; “You hated that job! You got divorced in that job! You forgot who you were in that job! Isn’t it time to do what you love???

Today, doing what you “love” is one of the most essential components of finding your Dream. One of the great disconnects of life, a truly monumental error that people commonly make, is not allowing love to direct their course. Why? Because they don’t know their own hearts, so they distrust themselves and their natural instincts. When you allow yourself to be so programmed by the culture you’re in that you become disconnected from your own heart, you’re in major trouble. You render yourself unable to make decisions about what’s best for your life and the lives of those you love. The real danger here is that you’ll begin to follow somebody else’s idea of success and fulfillment. You Forget “Who” and “What” You are. You attempt to become someone or something else for which you’re ill suited, and there are Several Possible Reasons for this:

  1. You Want to Be Somebody Else.
    A person may admire someone for their achievements in life and want to be like them. But they don’t possess that person’s level of talent, skill, or charisma. Unfortunately, a lot of people live in their own fantasy world, falsely believing they do have what it takes. This is a Big Mistake and a huge time waster.
  2. You Need the Money!
    I believe that working to pay the bills is one of the most common causes in Forgetting your dream. So many people are just too tired at the end of the day to work on or even think about their dream. Too bad. Turn off the damn TV! The TV will suck your dream right into the black hole of oblivion. Refuse to veg—unless, of course, your dream is to become a vegetable.
  3. Somebody Else Told You What to Do-
    They allowed a parent, teacher, preacher, or some other authority figure to manufacture what they thought was a good identity for them. All of us need wise counselors and good guidance, but only from those who have no other agenda except to help us discover and develop what we love and are well suited for.

Allowing someone else to remake you into their image will rob you of personal satisfaction, peace of mind, and contentment. Don’t allow anyone to derail you from your destiny. Why?

Let me Remind You…You’re a treasure chest filled with amazing talents, gifts, capabilities, dreams, aspirations, originality, passion, power, encouragement, and joy. You’ve been designed for maximum performance. You can choose to turn off that negative self-talk and choose, instead, to think positive, creative, life-giving thoughts. Or, you can let the tormenting self-talk have its way with you. It’s up to you. You get to choose.

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One Response to “The Power of Forgetfulness”

  1. Darryl Coleman September 8, 2009 at 2:45 pm #

    Great Blog post. I am going to bookmark and read more often. I love the Blog template if you need any assistance customizing it let me know!

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